Posted on 27 July, 2021 by Annabelle Garcia

It has been reported that a Hong Kong man named Xie Tianrong has a "girlfriend", but this girlfriend is not a real person, but a female sex doll named MoChi. In an interview with the media, we can learn that he put all his thoughts on the doll, not only to help it name it, but also to show affection from time to time, eat with it, watch movies, and play games. Those who are interested can watch related online. article. In the face of this phenomenon, some people think that "this is personal freedom", but others think that he is "morbid." Fall in love with a real female sex doll, what is it all about?

From an ethical point of view, can male sex dolls be accepted morally?

When we consider whether a behavior is ethical, one of the conditions is that moral principles should be applied everywhere. If everyone falls in love with a full-size love doll, is it morally acceptable? Or maybe your partner likes a life-size love doll, can you accept it?

Faced with these two questions, I believe most people's answer is no. First of all, if everyone loves BBW sex dolls, but the doll is just a dead thing and cannot reproduce the next generation, it is obviously problematic for the overall human reproduction perspective. On the other hand, love is exclusive. Even if it is just a doll, I believe that no one wants his partner to love a doll more than himself, right? This shows that this phenomenon does not seem to be able to pass the principle of putting it all over the world.

However, this is not the only way to say. If it is based on other doctrines, the answer may be completely opposite. For example, high individualism and liberals will usually distinguish between the "freedom principle" and the "do not harm others" principle. According to these two principles, it should be acceptable to fall in love with a physical doll. Because this is personal freedom, it does not hurt others. Since it does not affect others, the behavior should be acceptable.

Is the desire to control sex dolls a pathological state?

Many people will put the word "morbid" on this behavior, but let us think about why we think it is "morbid"? Everyone has their own hobbies, isn't this love? Why is it okay to chew fingers, but there is a problem with physical dolls?

It can be expected that there are two reasons for this. First, because they treat the doll as an adult, and devote the same amount of love as human love to love it. This inanimate object is like the incarnation of love. Although we all desire love, most people cannot accept this kind of love that is completely divorced from reality.

Second, it is because of the behavior of "control desire". Although it can't do anything, its characteristic is that you can completely control it. The complexity of human relationships lies in their uncontrollability, because we cannot control the thoughts and actions of others, so everyone should have experience of getting hurt when getting along with others. You will not be harmed with it. Even if this feeling is illusory, it does not love you, but it also satisfies the desire to control in the depths of the heart.

But throwing yourself into the illusion to avoid harm can really solve the real problem? The reality is so cruel, and getting along with people in reality will hurt you. Controlling people with strong desires is also one of the distinguishing characteristics of mentally ill people, so it cannot be said that they are "pathologically" completely unreasonable.

No matter how much you disagree with its behavior, we can't deny how miniature sex dolls are in individual groups. The editor really appreciates that the interviewees can ignore the eyes of others and go their own way. Somewhat pleased, who can be a true companion in society? The world is so big, but the life of material desires, red light and green wine cannot find a true companion. How cold is it to be like this? And how much company does the physical doll bring to them?

In reality, how many people have never been so respected and cherished like this sex dolls for women. The editor still respects his choice and admires the courage to pour this kind of love on a beautiful piece of art when there is no one to cherish in the impetuous society.